Meeting someone for the first time means different things to different people. You often hear comments like I Just Didnt Like Him From The Start, I feel in love with him on the first day and so on. They say 'you cant judge a book by the cover' but most of us mainly youths do evaluate people within the first few seconds of encounter even if it is just a glance-Men thats not right. Some even observe clothes, accessories, mannerisms, body buildups and style of talking. Ok as a lady how can you strike it right on the first day.
SMILE;The easiest way and best of all. When I mean smile am talking about natural geniune smile but not a deceiving one- one from the heart. What are you afraid of anyway? You even look uglier for some ladies when they 'bone up'. A smile is a powerful weapon which you can use to win people even enemies. You also look beautiful when you smile (like my girl.)
GREETING; This goes with a smile but when greeting say it like you really mean it. Most times you hear people say' How are you?' but do they care about the answer?. As a lady greet people maybe with a handshake and do it right.
EYE CONTACT; Eyes are the windows to your emotions. When meetng someone for the first time no matter the sex always maintain eye contact as it indicates an interest on what he/she is saying.Dont look sideways so the person does not take you to be timid or lacking self confidence.( Please eye contact is different from STARING.)
LOOKING GOOD; Am not saying you should look like a drag quenn or a monster but dres nice and a cute way.The way you dress tells much about you.
Finally friend be comfortable and be the best you can be. OK?. But dont compromise on the first day orelse he/she will kick you around until it ends. Stick to your principles but dont be too strick afterall. I guess you know what to say to impress the person orelse dont blaim me if you get snobbed after the first 2 minutes she/he discovers you have nothing to offer. Be natural. This is dedicated to all my friends and to my girl in particular- I Love You.
Tuesday, May 24, 2005
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