Plan a trip together: Surprise her with brochures from an area she has always wanted to visit. Make the trip she has always dreamed of, come true. You will have a blast and she will always cherish the memories you will build together.Hey remember is for a chick you wanna call your wife.
Take care of her when she's sick: Go over to her place with a rose, cough syrup, chicken soup, whatever you think might help. Don't expect any action on that day. But I guarantee that you will score points beyond your wildest dreams.But unfortunately my babe doesnt get sick- Thanks to God and her eating styles.
Entertain her parents: Put on a show, take the time to talk to them respectfully. She will love you for it. Be careful though because you can quickly be labeled as marriage material, and then you will have to kill them all if that's not what you want.If you notice such please start keeping away for some while.
Treat her like a princess: Am good at that. This one is for the days in between special occasions: listen to her; compliment her every time you think of something you don't like about yourself. Make her feel like you have found a diamond in the rough and you will never leave her side.But dont flatter and if you do dont let her know- I dont advice you do.
Find out what she wants:Some chicks dont need what others need so ask.Jewelry is the easy way out boys but my girl prefers "TIME" to any other material thing, I guess. Find out, get it for her, and she will love you. Be careful not to offer her a family heirloom unless she is the one you will marry (keep it in the family, son).
Send her flowers at work : Why send flowers to her house when only her alone would meet it. Send them to work (or class) when you can let her show off amog her friends but dont if she is the shy type. And guys, there are many more flowers out there than just roses. Go look for them now.
Stay home and drink together: Want to spice up a "stay at home" evening? Nothing says I want you bad like drinking some chilled soft drinks. By the time the drink is over and the buzz is starting, you gonna be surprise. Believe me.
Cook her something special: I did and she enjoyed it, My most successful meal has a perfect batting average: mussels. I know they say that oysters ares the best aphrodisiac. Am sorry, i are thinking wrongly now. Bye for today.
Thursday, September 29, 2005
Top Things To Discuss On A First Date
So you finally gathered enough courage to go talk to the cute redhead who caught your eye; your friends aren't impressed just yet. You finally develop the backbone to ask her out; now your friends are impressed. They ask where you plan to take her out, and more importantly what you're going to talk about on that all-important first date. Your knees begin to tremble uncontrollably. Fear not, read this list and you will have the girl begging for seconds.
Avoid her past: Generally speaking, one should never ask about past lovers on a first date. In fact, this should be avoided until she initiates the topic (if she ever does). She might have been hurt or may still be in love with her ex. You also prefer to start with a clean slate, so becoming chummy with her and comforting her about past mistakes may not be the greatest strategy on the first date. The goal is to take off her lipstick by the end of the evening, not help her wipe the tears as they smudge her mascara.
Got any brothers or sisters: Usually a safe topic of conversation is asking about siblings (don't ask her if she's got cute sisters). Again, asking about parents could backfire if they experienced a divorce or separation, especially at a young age. But sisters and brothers usually trigger good feelings and score points for you since you're showing a caring side and an interest in her family life.
Traveled anywhere special: A tricky way to spark a girl's interest is by asking about past travel destinations and where she intends on visiting in the future. The upside is that if she mentions a spot she always wanted to visit, lo and behold, here comes the knight in shining armor (that's you, boy) and offers to make her dreams come true one day by taking her there. This also provides both people with some insight about one's cultural background and their openness to new adventures.
Drinks anyone: A topic of conversation, especially if the date is taking place at a restaurant or bar, is the kind of food and drinks each of you prefers. Again, not only can you gauge whether or not you share culinary preferences, but the potential topics are endless and provide you with a safe topic of conversation unless, of course, you are dating someone with an addiction to food or alcohol.
Any career plans: Asking a girl about her past education and whether she intends on returning to school is admittedly a double-edged sword. She might love to go on and on about her numerous academic achievements. But she might break down and admit that her current job has absolutely nothing to do with what she studied. In either case, you are provided with a golden opportunity to reassure and encourage her with an abundance of compliments.
How's your job: If you are years removed from your college years, then talking about work and career goals just might be a safer topic. Admittedly, do not let her go into the mundane details about how fed up she is with her life, which would explain why she's on her seventh margarita. But generally speaking, people like to brag about work, no matter how routine it is. It also gives you an idea regarding whether or not you are dating a future CEO or a waitress-for-life (not that there is anything wrong with that, of course).If she is a student ask her about her time in school.
Got any friends?: Ask her about her friends. Even if you do not know them, she will love to tell you about her circle of friends, how much they mean to her and where she met them (and all of the things they did together). Don't doze off though, my good man, this is when you get precious details about her. If you ever make it further than the first date, her friends are usually the best source to unearth the skeletons in her closet.(Am not going anywhere now.)
Hobbies matter: I asked my girl, Amanda if she like football the second day we meet she said no but believe me over time she has developed interest in it even with my best team-Chelsea. How about sports? What kind of music does she like? These are the questions you must ask to determine how much of a bond exists between the two of you.If she does like all the things you do try to compromise after asking her why she doent like does stuffs.
Be bold and look ahead: My girl told me on our first date that she wanted a long relationship, I accepted. Now, she is having a good time, is looking at me with that sparkle in her eye and her body language is positive, you can look ahead and talk about other things you could do together in the future. Admittedly, you do not want to rush too far ahead and scare her off, but if she's enjoying herself, chances are she'll be curious to see what other great adventures you have in store for her.So dont be in a hurry. Try this out folks and get back to me. Shalom!!!
Avoid her past: Generally speaking, one should never ask about past lovers on a first date. In fact, this should be avoided until she initiates the topic (if she ever does). She might have been hurt or may still be in love with her ex. You also prefer to start with a clean slate, so becoming chummy with her and comforting her about past mistakes may not be the greatest strategy on the first date. The goal is to take off her lipstick by the end of the evening, not help her wipe the tears as they smudge her mascara.
Got any brothers or sisters: Usually a safe topic of conversation is asking about siblings (don't ask her if she's got cute sisters). Again, asking about parents could backfire if they experienced a divorce or separation, especially at a young age. But sisters and brothers usually trigger good feelings and score points for you since you're showing a caring side and an interest in her family life.
Traveled anywhere special: A tricky way to spark a girl's interest is by asking about past travel destinations and where she intends on visiting in the future. The upside is that if she mentions a spot she always wanted to visit, lo and behold, here comes the knight in shining armor (that's you, boy) and offers to make her dreams come true one day by taking her there. This also provides both people with some insight about one's cultural background and their openness to new adventures.
Drinks anyone: A topic of conversation, especially if the date is taking place at a restaurant or bar, is the kind of food and drinks each of you prefers. Again, not only can you gauge whether or not you share culinary preferences, but the potential topics are endless and provide you with a safe topic of conversation unless, of course, you are dating someone with an addiction to food or alcohol.
Any career plans: Asking a girl about her past education and whether she intends on returning to school is admittedly a double-edged sword. She might love to go on and on about her numerous academic achievements. But she might break down and admit that her current job has absolutely nothing to do with what she studied. In either case, you are provided with a golden opportunity to reassure and encourage her with an abundance of compliments.
How's your job: If you are years removed from your college years, then talking about work and career goals just might be a safer topic. Admittedly, do not let her go into the mundane details about how fed up she is with her life, which would explain why she's on her seventh margarita. But generally speaking, people like to brag about work, no matter how routine it is. It also gives you an idea regarding whether or not you are dating a future CEO or a waitress-for-life (not that there is anything wrong with that, of course).If she is a student ask her about her time in school.
Got any friends?: Ask her about her friends. Even if you do not know them, she will love to tell you about her circle of friends, how much they mean to her and where she met them (and all of the things they did together). Don't doze off though, my good man, this is when you get precious details about her. If you ever make it further than the first date, her friends are usually the best source to unearth the skeletons in her closet.(Am not going anywhere now.)
Hobbies matter: I asked my girl, Amanda if she like football the second day we meet she said no but believe me over time she has developed interest in it even with my best team-Chelsea. How about sports? What kind of music does she like? These are the questions you must ask to determine how much of a bond exists between the two of you.If she does like all the things you do try to compromise after asking her why she doent like does stuffs.
Be bold and look ahead: My girl told me on our first date that she wanted a long relationship, I accepted. Now, she is having a good time, is looking at me with that sparkle in her eye and her body language is positive, you can look ahead and talk about other things you could do together in the future. Admittedly, you do not want to rush too far ahead and scare her off, but if she's enjoying herself, chances are she'll be curious to see what other great adventures you have in store for her.So dont be in a hurry. Try this out folks and get back to me. Shalom!!!
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