Tuesday, July 05, 2005

Mistakes Brothers Make When Going For Her.

I've met a lot of beautiful women over the years, but the most interesting ones were those that I met by chance: on the street, in a café( like my present girlfriend) or even at a restaurant. These women were also the ones I found most difficult to approach. The only problem is that the situation is a little trickier. Firstly, you only have a few moments to make a courageous move, unlike in a dance club, where you have all night to break the ice. Secondly, because you're in a not-so-welcoming environment, some women may find your approach suspicious.Unfortunately, some men don't realize that certain factors will deter a woman from accepting an advancement or invitation from a total stranger. Here are the top common mistakes men make when approaching a woman:
1.Forgetting her comfort zone: Just because you know you're a nice guy, that doesn't mean she will. It is important to realize that most women will be on their guard when you first approach them. This is normal, and the important thing is for you to come across as a harmless guy. A little humor usually helps.
2. Trying to fool her: The second biggest error most men make is that they don't give women enough credit and respect. Most men think that they can fool a woman into giving them their number. Women know that you're trying to pick them up, so don't beat around the bush. Be direct and let them know exactly what you want. By doing so, you'll come across as a confident and straightforward guy.
3. Approaching without a plan: Some people can improvise successfully, but regardless of the case, having a plan always helps your chances of coming across as a person she might consider dating.
4. Acting like a pervert: A lot of men sabotage their chances with women by keeping their eyes aimed down at their breasts. Instead, keep your eyes locked onto hers. You want her to think that you're the best chicker on earth.
Please stop these things fast and that meeting cute sisters on a daily bases. I got to go resting for today.I love you.

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